Disabled- and neurodivergent-led mutual aid and access infrastructure. Free tools, language, and guides for surviving bad systems, building dignity, and living authentically.
Stimpunks
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What We Do
Stimpunks builds accessible infrastructure and public tools that support disabled and neurodivergent people to live with dignity.
We provide mutual aid, creator grants, learning opportunities, human-centered research, and living wages for our community.
Who We Serve
We exist for the direct support and mutual aid of neurodivergent and disabled people.
We exist to build infrastructure that supports disabled and neurodivergent people where other systems fail.
Need Help?
Need support right now? Start here — practical coping resources, access tools, and next steps.
🆘 Crisis Mode
If you’re overwhelmed right now: pick one small next step.
Three Ways to Use Stimpunks
People come to Stimpunks for different reasons. You can explore the site in three main ways.
Understand Neurodivergent Life
Design Better Environments
- Design Method
- Design Principles
- Collaborative Niche Construction
- Pattern Recipes
- Environments
- Design Standard
Navigate Systems and Survive
Table of Contents
- Need Help?
- What Is Stimpunks?
- Find Your Path
- Explore by Experience
- Stimpunks in a Minute
- What does “Stimpunks” mean?
- We Fix Systems
- The Stimpunks Design Method: ARLES
- The Practice Loop
- Help Us Fund Infrastructure That Systems Ignore
- Explore by Need
- Why?
- Our Lens
- Our Impact
- Testimonials
- Trust & Transparency
- Authenticity: The Freedom to Be
- Take a Walk in Our Shoes
What Is Stimpunks?
What is Stimpunks? Stimpunks is a disabled- and neurodivergent-led mutual aid and public education project. We build free language, tools, and access guides that help people survive bad systems, find dignity, and live more authentically.
We are a small, disabled-led nonprofit building infrastructure where systems fail. We operate with limited funding, a small staff, and high demand.
See where the money goes → Expand our Umbrella with a donation →
What people tell us after support:
I can’t believe how incredible y’all are. I’m in tears. This is the biggest thing that’s ever happened to me like this.
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Mutual Aid Grantee (anonymous)
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Most Read / Start Here
New here? These are the pages people use most—language, survival tools, and the Stimpunks worldview.
Most Read
Start Here
Pick the doorway that matches what you need today.
Follow what resonates. Keep what helps.
🗺 Tour the Site
Don’t try to read everything. Take the quick orientation.
Find Your Path
Start where you are. Pick what resonates. Or, scroll on to learn about Stimpunks.
I’m burned out
Communication is hard
I’m an educator / designer
I want to support
Want the words? Use the Glossary Map or browse the full Glossary.
Explore by Experience
Many people arrive at Stimpunks because they are trying to understand something happening in their lives. Start with the experience that feels most familiar.
- I get overwhelmed by noise, light, or crowds → Sensory Overload
- I go very deep into interests and struggle to switch tasks → Deep Attention
- I need more time to respond → Processing Time
- Socializing drains me → Social Exhaustion
- I feel chronically depleted → Autistic Burnout
- I like being with people without constant talking → Parallel Presence
- I rely on familiar foods and routines → Predictability
- I’m very strong in some areas and really struggle in others → Uneven Abilities
Want the bigger picture? Visit Experiences of Neurodivergent Life.
Stimpunks in a Minute
Through Stimpunks Foundation, we:
- Offer financial and mutual aid;
- Hire our community members as consultants;
- Provide a learning space designed for our community;
- Support our community’s open research efforts;
- Coordinate neurodivergent and disabled peer support;
- Document neurodivergent and disabled culture;
- Develop and deliver education based on lived experiences;
- Host events that celebrate neurodivergent and disabled culture;
- Hold space; and
- Provide warm lines and peer respite.

Stimpunks.org is a radically inclusive space led by and for neurodivergent and disabled people. Blending mutual aid, community care, and educational resources, we reimagine learning, working, and living through the lens of neurodiversity, disability justice, and lived experience. Our site offers rich content on neurodivergent design, sensory access, monotropism, and noncompliant pedagogy—centering voices that move through the world differently and advocating for systems rooted in access intimacy, creativity, and interdependence.
We’re here to reduce harm, increase access, and help people live more authentically.
Start here if you are…
Pick what you need right now. No wrong door. Or, keep on scrolling for more about us.
Stimpunks Foundation exists for people who don’t fit the systems they’re expected to survive. We’re a neurodivergent-led community sharing tools, ideas, and lived experience about learning, coping, and designing for real life. We reject “fixing” people and focus on changing environments instead. Take what helps, leave what doesn’t—you belong here as you are.
Stimpunks Foundation is a neurodivergent-led nonprofit working to reduce harm caused by systems that ignore real human needs. We create practical frameworks, field guides, and cultural tools grounded in lived experience—so people can learn, work, and live without masking or burning out. Your support funds care infrastructure, accessible publishing, and honest, public accountability. We don’t chase scale for its own sake—we invest in what actually helps.
Stimpunks is an essential resource for educators.
Ira David Socol (author of Timeless Learning and Designed to Fail: A History of Education in the United States)
Stimpunks Foundation is a learning space built by neurodivergent and disabled people for anyone questioning how school, work, and design are supposed to function. We offer plain-language frameworks, field guides, and tools that foreground complexity, access, and real-life conditions. Our work challenges compliance-based education and replaces it with approaches rooted in autonomy, sensory access, and dignity. If traditional systems aren’t working for your students, you’re in the right place.
They don’t take #DisabilityStudies classes.
Karrie Higgins
They don’t socialize with us.
They don’t listen to us.
Stimpunks Foundation offers perspectives you won’t find in clinical guidelines—because they come from people living inside the systems you work in. We share lived experience, practical frameworks, and language that can help you reduce harm, improve communication, and design care that works in real life. This is not diagnostic guidance or compliance training; it’s an invitation to listen, reflect, and do better alongside the people you serve.
Stimpunks Foundation is built by neurodivergent and disabled people working at the pace their lives allow. We value lived experience, honesty, and care over polish or productivity. Contribution here is flexible, consent-based, and supported with real infrastructure—not pressure or guilt. If you want to help build tools that reduce harm and make room for real lives, you’re welcome.
We work in public, default to open, and name constraints early. Tasks are scoped to real capacity, timelines are flexible, and rest is not a failure state. We encourage asking for help, changing your mind, and stepping back when needed. Credit is shared, power is examined, and care comes before output—because sustainable collaboration is the work.
Stimpunks Foundation is a space made with and for people who’ve been told to adapt endlessly to systems that won’t adapt back. We share lived experience, practical tools, and hard-earned language for surviving, learning, and building together. This isn’t about fixing yourself or performing productivity—it’s about care, honesty, and making room for real human needs. Come as you are. Take what you need. Add what you can.
Stimpunks Foundation is here for people who are overwhelmed, burned out, or falling through the cracks of systems that don’t work for them. We don’t have all the answers, and we can’t fix everything—but we can offer understanding, practical tools, shared language, and pathways to support. You don’t have to explain or justify your needs here. Start where you are. Take what helps. You’re not alone.
Accountability Is Care → Where the money goes, annual reports, policies.
What does “Stimpunks” mean?
stimming = self-stimulatory movements and expressions that help self-regulation; the repetition of physical movements, sounds, or words, or the repetitive movement of objects

Stimpunks combines “stimming” + “punks” to evoke open and proud stimming, resistance to normalization, and the DIY culture of punk, disabled, and neurodivergent communities. Instead of hiding our stims, we bring them to the front.
Everything that was normally supposed to be hidden was brought to the front.
PUNK SUBCULTURE – WIKIPEDIA
Punk has always been about dragging the truth into the light—showing the wires, the scars, the labor, the mess. It’s about rejecting the lie that systems are neutral and exposing who pays the cost when they pretend to be.
The term “Stimpunk” itself is a fusion of “stimming” and “punk,” symbolizing a proud embrace of behaviors and identities that mainstream culture frequently stigmatizes. By bringing to the forefront what is typically hidden—such as stimming behaviors—Stimpunks fosters an environment where individuals can express themselves without fear of judgment.
That’s what the name “Stimpunks” means to us. Read on for how we bring the hidden to the front by pursuing authenticity, our purest freedom.
We Fix Systems
Authenticity is our purest freedom.
The Journey of Undoing: An open letter to who needs it — SITI Girl Miami
Stimpunks is a neurodivergent- and disabled-led rebellion against systems that demand conformity to grant humanity. We build community, move money directly to people who need it, and create learning and access tools that reject fixing, compliance, and forced normalcy. Grounded in the belief that authenticity is our purest freedom, Stimpunks exists to tear down ableist norms and replace them with care, autonomy, and spaces where no one has to mask to survive.
Stimpunks was truly my first encounter with a community created by and for neurodivergent & disabled people outside the context of schooling, and it changed my intellectual life forever.
It’s a DIY humanizing rebellion.
Nick Covington of Human Restoration Project
So that we may all pursue our purest freedom, we have to challenge the norm and change the narrative around people who are neurodivergent or disabled. Thus, Stimpunks. We don’t “fix” people. We fix systems. We fix access, expectations, and environments.
Fix injustice, not us. Difference isn’t a problem.
Our guiding principle is simple and measurable in impact:
When people are allowed to be authentic, outcomes improve.
We reject neuronormativity and demand the right to live and learn differently.
We, Stimpunks
The Stimpunks Design Method: ARLES
A simple way to understand and redesign neurodivergent environments.
Start by asking better questions about attention, relationships, lived experience, environments, and systems.

Learn the Method · Field Guide
Designing a world where different minds are expected.
A field guide for understanding and designing neurodivergent life, environments, and systems.
The Practice Loop
Once you understand the system, here’s how to use it.

Quickstart Guide · Apply Recipes
🧰 Build Your Livable World
You shouldn’t have to fight your environment just to exist.
Most spaces aren’t built for your bodymind.
So you end up compensating, masking, and burning energy just to get through the day.
You don’t need to fix yourself.
You need a setup that works.
🔎 Step 1: Audit Your World
Start with the checklist:
→ 🧠 Livable Worlds Checklist: A Practical Audit for Building Environments You Can Exist In
Find what’s actually making your life harder.
🛠 Step 2: Fix One Thing
Don’t overhaul everything. Pick one friction point.
Start here:
- 🎒 → Sensory Kit
Regulate anywhere, not just at home - 🛋 → Pillows: Separate, Isolate, Bolster, Squeeze
Stop holding your body up all day - 🚶 → Sitting, Standing, Walking, Rolling, Hauling, Relaxing
Reduce the energy cost of moving through the world - 🍽 → Dressing, Eating, Hydrating, Hygiene
Make care possible on low-energy days
🔁 Step 3: Test and Adjust
Go back to the checklist.
Did anything get easier?
- If yes → keep building
- If no → try a different lever
🧠 What You’re Doing
You’re not optimizing yourself.
You’re building a world where:
- you can stay regulated
- you don’t waste energy on friction
- you don’t have to hide what you need
🌱 If You Want Context
- → This Chronic Bodymind: How We Cope
Why this is necessary in the first place
Help Us Fund Infrastructure That Systems Ignore
We currently fund one Mutual Aid Grant per month. Demand exceeds our budget.
Your support directly expands capacity — more grants, more regulation resources, more public tools built by and for disabled and neurodivergent people.
Explore by Need
Don’t guess where to start. Pick what you need right now.
Or, keep scrolling for more about us.
🫁 Bodymind Break
Take a moment to check in with your bodymind.
Do what you need:
- move, stretch, stim
- drink water or eat
- rest your eyes
- leave and come back
You don’t need permission.
Your bodymind has needs.
Those needs deserve to be met.
Mission & Philosophy
These are our guiding documents — the compasses and stars that align us on our mission. Read one, skim all, or bookmark and return.
🎯 Mission
We put resources directly into the hands of neurodivergent and disabled people to reduce harm, remove barriers, and make thriving possible.
🤝 Creed
I center the marginalized and the different. Edge cases are stress cases, and design is tested at the edges.
🌿 Covenant
We pledge to act and interact in ways that contribute to an open, welcoming, diverse, inclusive, and healthy community.
🧭 Philosophy
We steer by these acquired phrases. They are compasses and stars that align us on our mission.
📣 Manifesto
A protest of the notion that there is any correct way to live. We reject neuronormativity and demand the right to learn and live differently.
📋 Tenets
27 principles we hold — from “Authenticity Is Sacred” to “No One Is Disposable.” The full spine of what we believe.
🔗 Interdependence
It is time to celebrate our interdependence. Our survival is bound up together — what you do impacts others.
🔬 Design at the Edges
Our designs, our societies, and the boundaries of our compassion are tested at the edges — where bias, inequality, and thoughtlessness are exposed.
We steer by these compasses. Explore the full Philosophy →
Why?
What’s our motivation? Why do we do what we do?
We provide inclusive, community-based educational and creative opportunities for neurodivergent and disabled people. We challenge conventional systems and affirm lived experience. We believe our work offers a distinct and impactful contribution.
“Staying alive is a lot of work for a disabled person in an ableist society.” (Wong, 2020) We provide real help against the onslaught. We believe that direct support to individuals is the most effective approach to alleviating the barriers and challenges that prevent neurodivergent and disabled people from thriving in neuronormative and ableist environments. Our application process is simple, and our direct payments have the potential to transform how neurodivergent and disabled people access philanthropic capital.
Founded in 2021, Stimpunks Foundation was created by and for neurodivergent and disabled people, prioritizing autonomy, co-creation, and community empowerment. Our programming is shaped directly by those we serve, ensuring a lived-experience-centered model of support and growth. We serve neurodivergent and disabled people all over the United States and the world, offering accessible pathways for expression, education, and connection.
Our core programs include:
- Mutual Aid Initiatives: Providing direct financial support to individuals facing barriers due to ableism, ensuring they have the resources needed to thrive.
- Creator Grants: Offering financial support to neurodivergent and disabled creators across various fields, enabling them to immerse fully in their work and contribute to community enrichment.
- Learning Spaces: Establishing anti-ableist, human-centered educational environments that embrace neurodiversity and foster inclusive learning experiences.
- Open Research: Engaging in participatory, emancipatory research that amplifies the voices of neurodivergent and disabled people, challenging traditional academic narratives.
- Peer Support Networks: Coordinating support systems that connect people, fostering community and shared experiences.
- Cultural Documentation: Capturing and preserving the rich culture of neurodivergent and disabled communities, ensuring their stories and contributions are recognized.
- Educational Outreach: Developing and delivering programs based on lived experiences, providing authentic learning opportunities that resonate with our community.
We are proud of our approach that blends mutual aid, direct support, and adaptive learning environments. Unlike many service providers that operate within rigid institutional frameworks, we meet individuals where they are, honoring their pace, needs, and identities. Our organization operates through a horizontal, omnidirectional leadership structure, and all of our Directors and Board members are themselves neurodivergent and disabled—deepening our authenticity, accountability, and solidarity.
Systemic barriers in healthcare, education, and employment disproportionately harm neurodivergent and disabled people, many of whom live without adequate support or representation. Existing systems often pathologize difference rather than embracing it. Despite significant need, most funding structures overlook the transformative, grassroots work being led by neurodivergent and disabled communities.
Neurodivergent and disabled people are routinely excluded from education, employment, healthcare, and social support. The systems that claim to serve us are often built without us—and therefore fail us.
Many of us:
- Face chronic unemployment or underemployment.
- Are pushed out of schools through punitive discipline.
- Live without access to adequate housing, healthcare, or support services.
- Experience medical, educational, and institutional harm.
There is an urgent need for culturally competent, community-rooted support that affirms difference, celebrates stimming, and recognizes disability as culture—not deficit.
One in four U.S. adults have a disability. However, our community receives only 2% of US grant funding, and only 19% of us are employed. We can’t just let that be the truth. We have to challenge the norm and change the narrative around people who are neurodivergent or disabled.
A moment of obligation is the instant when you can no longer look away — when your own experience of a broken system makes it impossible to leave the next person to face it alone. For Stimpunks, that moment came through lived necessity: rolling our own education because public systems failed us, building our own care infrastructure because existing institutions weren’t built for us, and finding, as the Combahee River Collective put it, that the only people who care enough about us to work consistently for our liberation are us. Obligation isn’t guilt. It isn’t charity. It’s the recognition that we know what’s needed, we know it from the inside, and that knowledge carries weight.
Stimpunks was created to forge the way for educational inclusion and to give our community the means to survive and to thrive. We as disabled and neurodivergent people had to roll our own education, because even the “all means all” of public education failed to include us. We had to create our own care systems, because “we realized that the only people who care enough about us to work consistently for our liberation are us.” “Responsibility for the survival of entire communities lies with us.”
In Brief
Funding Stimpunks supports immediate relief and durable cultural change, led by those most affected. We’ve gathered everything funders need in one place.
📄 Funder Brief
What we do, who we serve, our approach, and the outcomes your support makes possible — in brief.
📝 One-Page Grant Narrative
A ready-to-use narrative covering need, approach, activities, and outcomes — formatted for grant applications.
💛 Why Donate
Seven reasons your money goes further here — direct to people, upstream of harm, led by those most affected.
❓ What Funders Usually Ask
How we answer common funder questions — on outcomes, scale, accountability, and impact measurement.
🗂 Grant Application Crosswalk
Common grant prompts translated into how Stimpunks actually answers them — without flattening our work or our people.
Our Lens
These are Stimpunks’ core ideas, framed as short briefs to support understanding. Each brief explains how we understand autism, disability, care, and systems differently—grounded in lived experience.
These are not neutral definitions. They are tools for perceiving differently.
This is our lens.
Our Impact
- Number of mutual aid grants: 110
- Amount of mutual aid grants: $67,850
- Number of creator grants: 14
- Amount of creator grants: $42,000
- Amount of all grants: $109,850
- Number of web pages published: 1,305
- Number of Google Scholar citations: 65
Testimonials
A good measure of any movement is in the stories of the people it touches. In this section, community members, grantees, and allies share what Stimpunks has meant to them — from places of liberation and joy to moments of profound connection and belonging. Their voices reflect how our work shows up in real lives, affirming that this is not just a website, but a humanizing rebellion led by and for neurodivergent and disabled people.
As Stimpunks have shown, cultural agency is developed through pedagogy, activism, language, and creative practice, and it has the potential to expand what we think of as the social.
Stenning, Anna. Narrating the Many Autisms: Identity, Agency, Mattering (The Routledge Series Integrating Science and Culture) (p. 193).

As ‘self-consciously subversive bricolage’ (Stimpunks), it paves the way for collective forms of expression that are modular and lively.
In what follows, I explore the authorship of web technologies (in the form of WordPress websites) to create alternative social networks by and for neurodivergent communities. These two domains rely not only on web coding, information architecture skills and knowledge gained in technology fields but also the understanding of cultural and social practices that exist in other disciplines. Two of their co-authors – Jorn Bettin and Ryan Boren– have ‘hacked’ their careers in technology fields so that they can dedicate their lives to social justice. Similarly, autistic researchers from around the world who have been trained in cognitive psychology, education, literature, creative writing, and sociology are supplementing disciplinary training with philosophical inquiry to challenge the implicit and widespread assumption that autism and neurodiversity more generally can only be studied through the methods of cognitive psychology.
As examples of modular and animating institutions, I refer to the organizational operating model proposed by Jorn Bettin, from the Autism Collaboration Trust (AutCollab), as part of the NeuroDiventures Project. I argue that the model supports ‘transversal’ relations, which are characterized by the ways that power and roles are disrupted’ (Wolf-Meyer 2020: 64) by neurodivergent member-employees working toward a common goal. In terms of facilitation, I provide examples from Stimpunks, who offer ‘Mutual Aid and Human-Centered Learning for Neurodivergent and Disabled People’, by implementing the operating model provided by AutCollab (2023).
Like the methods used by Stimpunks, AutCollab also makes use of montage, visual storytelling, and intertext, often in first-person forms, to provide different ways to interact with the content. AutCollab and Stimpunks demonstrate how sharing knowledge about autism or neurodiversity more generally is made possible by institutional arrangements that facilitate individuals with diverse capacities and interests.
Organizations such as Stimpunks and AutCollab facilitate connections, between individuals to counter the isolation and perceived burdensomeness that many autistic people experience through dominant social practices.
Drawing on ideas from AutCollab, Stimpunks, the Autistic Task Force and Wolf-Meyer’s writing on modular institutions, I explore how the idea of ‘conviviality’, as autonomy within interaction, can apply to autistic people’s distinctive ways of responding to the world and a cooperation across neurotypes and cultures.
While I focus in this chapter on AutCollab, Stimpunks, and the Global Autistic Taskforce, there are many other organizations which connect neurodivergent academics globally and regionally and which are working to produce tools to unravel the assumption that there is a singular pathway to becoming a valuable human subject. Like the organizations introduced below, there is seldom a singular focus on neurodiversity, and participants bring their insights into the need to recognize the intersections of atypical subjectivity with differences in ethnicity, sexuality, and gender identity. Together, these organizations themselves suggest models for how we might create institutions that can support atypical forms of learning, working, and playing.
Recognizing the injustice of the enforced ‘neurotypicalization’ of neurodivergent and disabled people, Stimpunks focuses on four pillars to support collective efforts to ‘forge our own community’: mutual aid, ‘designing for the edges’, open research, and a diversity consultancy (Stimpunks homepage: n.d.). While the charity also provides financial aid to members, the majority of content refers to the possibilities of a ‘DIY culture’ drawn from many sources: disability activism, punk, and critical pedagogy. One of the founders, Ryan Boren, is a retired technologist and former senior coder at WordPress.
Many of the charity’s activities focus on the notion of ‘reframing’, and the creation of a shared language to enable both self-care and social change (Boren 2020). The reframing works not only at the level of the Neurodiversity Paradigm but in terms of a broader ‘structural ideology’ (ibid). This ideology is intended to shift thinking beyond the ‘attribution error’ of regarding behaviors as resulting from individual dispositional or mindset factors rather than ‘situational factors’ resulting from the social environment and influenced by ‘policies, norms, systems, and other structural realities’ (Boren 2021). Boren notes that the misleading ‘mindset’ mentality is evident in the demand for mindfulness as a solution for the stress that people experience as a direct result of external factors. Boren advocates a political response through design aimed at the ‘edge’, where:
[O]ur societies, and the boundaries of our compassion are tested at the edges, where the truths told are of bias, inequality, injustice, and thoughtlessness. (Stimpunks ‘Edges’)
Stimpunks addresses the idea of how education may provide ‘psychological & sensory safe spaces’ that simultaneously provide opportunities for ‘intermittent collaboration’, rather than enforced large group interactions, and ‘collaborative niche construction’. For Stimpunks, the latter means creating the ‘least restrictive environment’ that enables the recognition of all students’ strengths, while at the same time engineering the environment to support the vulnerabilities of all learners. This acknowledges that individuals vary according to sensory sensitivity and will benefit from the development of three distinctive archetypal learning places to maximize possibilities for all learners (not only the ‘neurodivergent’) within both online and physical environments: these as the campfire, cave, and watering hole.
The cave, in particular, is suited to autistic learners or ‘orchids’, who are most susceptible to outside influences: it represents a quiet space where students can retreat to reflect on what they have experienced and engage in a ‘maker’s schedule’ rather than one that is dominated by the instructor. The campfire signifies a situation in which learners share learning in a small group of peers. The watering hole is a space that allows access to a broader ‘common space’, providing an opportunity for ‘intermittent collaboration’ that has been shown to benefit all learners (Stimpunks ‘Cavendish Spaces’).
While I focus on texts written by Bettin and Boren, both the Stimpunks and AutCollab websites feature a wide range of narrators, artists, musicians, and commentators, with external links to blog posts, Tweets, and YouTube channels. The Stimpunks website, in particular, offers multiple points of access to and ways through its content and beyond, with key definitions presented in different media, including an ‘ear read’ and a ‘plain text’ format. AutCollab focuses on linguistic and cultural plurality and has made key content available in seven languages. Each website is organized around modules of overlapping themes, and AutCollab provides the opportunity for feedback and critique. Both organizations provide material free at the point of access.
I wish to highlight the contrasting approaches to the development of knowledge and technology to support autistic people: on the one hand the ‘pathogen’ model of autistic populations, on the other the community approach to autistic collaboration advocated by Stimpunks and AutCollab. The Lancet Commission’s approach to technology centers on its potential to capture, and potentially minimize, the costs and risks associated with autism in general. Technology seems to serve the role of controlling autistic bodies so that they may be seen to conform to neurotypical social norms (even while this runs the risk of creating further autistic pathologies, such as screen addiction (322)). The community approach, on the other hand, focuses on knowledge and technologies to facilitate connections and capacities that may support both the pursuit of individual interests and plans and collectively meaningful activities that relate to real-world challenges. In the latter case, risks, costs, and knowledge are shared (albeit differentially) by the participants in a particular project, but they are crucial part of any individual’s enjoyment in participating.
Conclusion: autistic connectivity in the Anthropocene
Narratives about a shared autistic sensibility may simultaneously serve as acts of care for those who may struggle more than we do with participation in a normative social world, but with whom we otherwise affirm kinship commonalities, and as an affirmation of political agency in resisting the imposition of dominant external narratives onto our lives. This is evident both in Joanne Limburg’s Letters to My Weird Sisters and in the collective narrative acts of the Autistic Task Force, above; it is also apparent in the Stimpunks and AutCollab websites. In each case, political agency depends on recognition – if only by our peers – of what we bring to a shared world so that we retain confidence in our understanding.
As I explored in relation to the work of Stimpunks and AutCollab, new media, in particular, provide public spaces that allow for discussions of the limitations of existing family structures when confronted with disability. Autistic-authored autobiographies can be seen not only as a development out of new online communities developed specifically by and for autistic people, but also in terms of these broader counter-normative social contexts that allow reinterpretation of concepts such as care and interdependence. Kinship imaginaries also support the development of counter-discourses about autism and other ‘severe’ neurological conditions which are not based on a reductive neuro-determinism.
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Thank you so deeply for your help and for your care of others.
My partner told me about you and when I saw your mission page I cried for like an hour because it resonated so strongly.
It shocked me, humbled me, and made me wonder how you were able to do what you did for me!
Thank you so much @stimpunks for supporting & believing in me & my artwork.
It’s okay to be you. It’s okay to be different. It’s okay to have a disability. Never give up on yourself.
Jasmine Slater
If y’all care about me, read what @stimpunks is saying.
Liana McCrea
Huge thank you to @stimpunks for this generator so if we lose power, the oxygen concentrator can still run! I can’t thank you enough!!
Karrie Higgins
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Authenticity: The Freedom to Be
Authenticity is our purest freedom.
The Journey of Undoing: An open letter to who needs it — SITI Girl Miami
The freedom to BE, fully seen AND heard in all my glory is my heart’s deepest request. This is a prayer, self-love letter, a final notice to my inner critic, one more voice in the echo—thank you for witnessing my purest form
.The Journey of Undoing: An open letter to who needs it — SITI Girl Miami
At Stimpunks Foundation, the declaration “Authenticity Is Our Purest Freedom” serves as a guiding principle that underscores our commitment to empowering neurodivergent and disabled individuals. This ethos champions the right to self-expression and the dismantling of societal norms that often marginalize those who diverge from conventional standards.
Authenticity at Stimpunks is intertwined with the concept of interdependence. We believe that true freedom encompasses the ability to be one’s genuine self while acknowledging our interconnectedness. This perspective shifts the focus from individualism to a collective approach that values care and mutual support as essential components of a free and authentic life.
Psychological safety starts with “I don’t have to hide”.
Psychological safety means a person can exist without constantly scanning for danger:
- Will I be punished for this?
- Will I be judged, corrected, or excluded?
- Do I need to perform normality to survive?
For neurodivergent and disabled people, inauthenticity is often a survival strategy, not a choice. Masking, code-switching, suppressing stims, flattening emotions, or hiding needs all consume cognitive and emotional energy.
When authenticity is allowed, the nervous system gets a signal:
You are not under threat for being yourself.
That is psychological safety at its most basic level.
Authenticity is not self-expression for its own sake.
It is the precondition for psychological safety.
And psychological safety isn’t a luxury — it’s what allows humans, especially marginalized ones, to function, connect, and create without harm.
Masking isn’t neutral — it’s expensive.
It requires:
- Constant self-monitoring
- Predicting others’ reactions
- Editing language, tone, posture, expression
- Suppressing natural regulation behaviors
This creates continuous low-grade stress, even in “safe” environments.
Authenticity removes that tax.
Psychological safety isn’t just emotional comfort — it’s functional capacity. When people don’t have to perform, they:
- Think more clearly
- Regulate more effectively
- Participate more fully
- Recover from stress faster
Authenticity literally frees mental bandwidth.
Many authentic behaviors — stimming, silence, repetition, intense focus, blunt speech — are self-regulation strategies, not social failures.
When environments suppress authenticity:
- Regulation is blocked
- Stress accumulates
- Meltdowns or shutdowns become more likely
When authenticity is welcomed:
- Regulation happens early and quietly
- Crises are prevented rather than “managed”
- People remain within their window of tolerance
Psychological safety isn’t about comfort — it’s about regulatory permission.
Unsafe environments center an implicit rule:
“Be like us, or explain yourself.”
Safe environments flip that rule:
“You don’t owe us translation, performance, or justification.”
Authenticity becomes political here:
- Who defines “professional,” “polite,” “appropriate”?
- Who bears the cost of deviation?
Stimpunks’ framing recognizes that forcing inauthenticity is a form of control, and psychological safety requires dismantling that control, not softening it.
I’m not broken. Not a broken robot or failed competitor or weirdo whose entire life is pathologized … I’m a reasonable and excellent human being with human limits and gifts. I’m part of variety, not deviation.
A multimodal response in the final class (graduate)
(research participant, as cited in Dymond, 2025a, p. 69)
Kara Dymond: Access, agency, and wellbeing: Possibilities for neurodiversity-affirming classrooms… – YouTube
We reject neuronormativity—the idea that there is one correct way to think, learn, communicate, or exist. Schools, workplaces, and institutions are built around narrow expectations of attention, behavior, productivity, and emotional expression, and anyone who falls outside those lines is pressured to mask, comply, or disappear.
We demand the right to live and learn differently. That means honoring diverse sensory needs, communication styles, learning rhythms, and ways of engaging with the world. It means designing environments that adapt to people instead of forcing people to adapt to systems. Difference is not a deficit to be corrected—it is a reality to be respected and supported.
Take a Walk in Our Shoes
Let us be our authentic selves. Learn more about our community, our journey, and the philosophy we picked up along the way on the next page. Take a walk in our shoes so that you can see, hear, and understand us. Bring the hidden to the front, and witness our realest selves.
Take a Walk in Our Shoes
This powerful animation reveals that the barriers and solutions lie not within the young person, but in the school environment, its ethos and in peer and teacher relationships and attitudes.
Walk in My Shoes – The Donaldson Trust
We have turned classrooms into a hell for neurodivergence. Telling young neurodivergent people struggling to attend school to be more resilient is profoundly inappropriate.
Erin’s experiences shine a light on issues beyond her control that could be resolved by others; by listening and by showing they care. She could not have done more. Telling young autistic people struggling to attend school to be more resilient is profoundly inappropriate, if what you are really asking is for them to keep going under circumstances they should not be asked to endure. We need to change the circumstances.
Walk in My Shoes – The Donaldson Trust
Education Access: We’ve Turned Classrooms Into a Hell for Neurodivergence
The number of autistic young people who stop attending mainstream schools appears to be rising.
Walk in My Shoes – The Donaldson Trust
My research suggests these absent pupils are not rejecting learning but rejecting a setting that makes it impossible for them to learn.
We need to change the circumstances.
We invite you to experience the world as many neurodivergent and disabled people do—not as a thought experiment, but as a reality shaped by design, expectations, and power. These stories, simulations, and reflections show how everyday environments can exhaust, exclude, or harm when they ignore difference. The goal isn’t pity or inspiration. It’s understanding, accountability, and better choices about how we design schools, workplaces, and communities.
Through scrollytelling* — a blend of storytelling, art, and narrative media — you’re encouraged to see, hear, and feel what it means to live beyond the constraints of neuronormativity. It’s a chance to encounter our world richly and intimately, recognizing the full humanity in each voice and perspective shared here.
*Scrollytelling is the fusion of scrolling and storytelling: a way to dynamically tell long-form stories as the user scrolls.
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