The CDC estimates that in 2018, almost 45 million people in the US were living with at least one chronic condition that interfered with their daily life. And according to those estimates, that number has been rising by more than 700,000 people per year on average. So it stands to reason that there are a whole lot of people living with unexplained symptoms right now, just like I was.Brianne’s TEDx Talk: Disease Begins Before Diagnosis – No End In Sight
I bet you know someone with an undiagnosed chronic illness. Maybe they complain about their health all the time or they always seem to cancel plans. Maybe this has been happening for years and you’ve started to write them off as a hypochondriac, a drama queen. Maybe you believe that if something was seriously wrong, their doctor would have figured it out by now.Brianne’s TEDx Talk: Disease Begins Before Diagnosis – No End In Sight
Most people I interview have spent years wondering if their symptoms are all in their heads. And even worse, they often feel like their loved ones believe that too. Like their loved ones are writing them off as weak or Laziness does not exist.People do not choose to fail or disappoint. No one wants to feel incapable, apathetic, or ineffective. If you look at a person’s action (or inaction) and....Without medical confirmation of their illness, a lot of people feel uncomfortable asking for Accommodation is fundamentally about not changing the person but changing the environment around the person.Normal Sucks: Author Jonathan Mooney on How Schools Fail Kids with Learning Differences Yet on a programmatic... or using mobility aids. And without a Self diagnosis is not just “valid” — it is liberatory. When we define our community ourselves and wrest our right to self-definition back from the systems that painted us as..., people can’t access benefits, The label "disabled" means so much to me. It means I have community. It means I have rights. It means I can be proud. It means I can affirm myself... parking passes, or even patient support groups.
And it turns out that diagnosis isn’t as clear cut as I’d always believed. Not only does it take a long time, but people are often misdiagnosed along the way.Brianne’s TEDx Talk: Disease Begins Before Diagnosis – No End In Sight
I play trick or treat in the hospital halls Pink and pastel blue, I'm bouncing off the walls I'd like to calculate every swollen bone But I'm strapped inside myself countless hours alone It's blind men, diseased Pills and scripts, they push me Towards, telephones, call anyone with hope Of sculpting life as it was They strip to check my broken neck, I'm doped Do they think it's a trick That I pull when I'm sick But I swear to you, it's true Yes I swear to you, it's true Yes I swear to you, it's true Yes I swear to you, it's true
Swim through the afterbirth, while giant veins offend I'm stretching the skin, till it splits They strip to check my broken neck, I'm doped Desert flower, golden hour, stepping in, pools of blood Put your hand On my chest Hold your breath Broken neck But I swear to you It's true I want some kind of miracle To split, separate The If addiction is like misguided love, then compassion is a far better approach than punishment.Can You Get Over an Addiction? - The New York Times In her book Unbroken Brain,... and the parasite My abstract creates And I know you will appreciate me in any way But the pathosis it strips my bones Just for the holidays --Broken Neck by Screaming Females
Lots of people become chronically ill long before they find the disability What I have always been hoping to accomplish is the creation of community.Community is magic. Community is power. Community is resistance.Disability Visibility: First-Person Stories from the Twenty-First Century https://www.amazon.com/Disability-Visibility-First-Person-Stories-Twenty-First-ebook/dp/B082ZQBL98/ https://www.amazon.com/Disability-Visibility-Adapted-Young-Adults-ebook/dp/B08VFT4R9T/.... And so lots of people who become chronically ill don’t feel like they can ask for accommodations if they don’t need them all the time. If I’m not sure if I’ll need a wheelchair next time I’m at the airport, am I allowed to book one in advance? (I am allowed to, but this is a conversation that I find myself having over and over again.)
I am chronically ill and I am disabled. In order to move through the world safely, I need to think about my body’s needs all of the time.My Disability Is Dynamic – No End In Sight
Let me tell you right now that one of the most powerful things you can do for a patient who might be chronically ill is to believe them, even if you don’t know how to help them.
And actually, that applies to all of you. The most powerful thing you can do for anybody in your life who’s navigating an ongoing health issue is to believe them.
Believe that they’re trying as hard as they can to get to the root of the problem, instead of imagining that you’d know what to do in their situation.
Believe that they’re using all available resources to build a better life, instead of bombarding them with advice about how to get healthy.
Believe that they’ve learned their body’s limits through exhausting trial and error, instead of encouraging them to just push a little harder.
And more than anything else, believe them when they tell you how they feel, instead of looking for a silver lining in their pain or their grief.
Whatever they’re going through, believe them. It’s enough.Brianne’s TEDx Talk: Disease Begins Before Diagnosis – No End In Sight
Dear Problem Patients
- We believe you.
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- The wellness industry is gaslighting you.
- It’s not your fault.
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- Medical bias is real.
- The way we see medicine practiced on television is a fantasy.
- We believe that you have a problem.
- We are angry and grieving too.
- Talking to other people who know what this feels like has changed everything for us.
- It’s okay to feel joy when your body is hurting.
- Feeling joy doesn’t undermine how much you are struggling.
- It’s okay if you haven’t found any joy in your struggle at all.
- Your story doesn’t need a neat and tidy ending.
- Somebody out there is yearning for a story just like yours that is honest about pain or maybe joy and that ends in an uncertain and messy place.
- Your story matters.
- We want to know your story.
- We want to help you find the stories you’ve been yearning for.
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On the shore living in sandcastles No one cares about the coming last battle Sea is getting rough and the walls rattle Waves crashing down and the ocean swallows Bodies Bodies --Bodies by Rabbit Junk