
Develop a Language in Which We Can Both Understand and Challenge the World
The shift from the pathology paradigm to the neurodiversity paradigm calls for a radical shift in language, because the appropriate language for discussing medical problems is quite different from the appropriate language for discussing diversity.
THROW AWAY THE MASTER’S TOOLS: LIBERATING OURSELVES FROM THE PATHOLOGY PARADIGM
In politics our frames shape our social policies and the institutions we form to carry out policies. To change our frames is to change all of this. Reframing is social change.
The ALL NEW Don’t Think of an Elephant!: Know Your Values and Frame the Debate
When we successfully reframe public discourse, we change the way the public sees the world. We change what counts as common sense. Because language activates frames, new language is required for new frames. Thinking differently requires speaking differently.
Terror comes in many forms and one powerful expression is when people become too fearful to develop a language in which they can both understand and challenge the world in which they live. Not only does such linguistic deprivation fail to ward off the plague of propaganda, but it also contributes ‘to an annihilation of the self and the destruction of the capacity to recognize the real world’.
Giroux, Henry A.. Pedagogy of Resistance (p. 31). Bloomsbury Publishing.
You Cannot Change a Reality That You Cannot Name
Kimberlé Crenshaw | ‘You Cannot Change a Reality That You Cannot Name’: — FAIR
Language is also a place of struggle.
—bell hooks, Choosing the Margin as a Space of Radical Openness
“Language is also a place of struggle.” “Thinking differently requires speaking differently.” “Develop a language in which they can both understand and challenge the world in which they live.”
We may not know it, and be able to talk about it, because there’s been an agenda to erase our capacity to name that reality. And the clear fact is that you cannot change or transform a reality that you cannot name, you cannot historicize, you cannot conceptualize.
Kimberlé Crenshaw | ‘You Cannot Change a Reality That You Cannot Name’: — FAIR
People often take issue against the terms used by marginalized people. We experience this in our advocacy regarding Identity First Language and the terms neurodivergent and neurotypical. These terms were coined to examine power and privilege, which is exactly what some don’t like about them.
Our glossary grows rapidly. We’re defining the small truths and the big truths of our daily existence.
Post-truth is pre-fascism.
Snyder, Timothy. On Tyranny: Twenty Lessons from the Twentieth Century (p. 71). Crown/Archetype. Kindle Edition.
“Language is also a place of struggle.”
“Thinking differently requires speaking differently.“
“Develop a language in which they can both understand and challenge the world in which they live.”
Language is the most powerful tool we have.
Divisive, demeaning and devoid of feeling: how social work jargon causes problems for families
Let’s use it well.
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Object Personification
Object personification is the attribution of human characteristics to non-human agents. In online forums, autistic individuals commonly report experiencing this phenomenon. Given that approximately half of all autistic individuals experience difficulties identifying their own emotions, the suggestion that object personification may be a feature of autism seems almost paradoxical. Why would a person experience sympathy…
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Safe Space
A place where anyone can relax and be fully self-expressed, without fear of being made to feel uncomfortable, unwelcome or challenged on account of biological sex, race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, gender identity or expression, cultural background, age, or physical or mental ability; a place where the rules guard each person’s self-respect, dignity and feelings and strongly…
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Fuel Bubble
“Fuel bubble” is a metaphor for energy and attention management that incorporates niche construction, interests, psychological safety, self-determination, regulation, and flow states into a carefully woven balance of inputs and outputs that supports an individual to thrive. He explained that his fuel bubble has several components. It is the physical space, around his desk, as…
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Weirdwashing
Weirdwashing is when people and especially corporations trade on surface indicators of strangeness, difference or rebellion, without making space for the real thing. Weirdwashing. Capitalism & Non-Conformity; Co-option… | by Fergus Murray | Mar, 2025 | Medium As well as reducing political movements to little more than marketable images, this can lead to signifiers of…
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AuDHD
Autistic and ADHD? That’s AuDHD. AuDHD Explained I The Overlap of Autism and ADHD – Tiimo App AuDHD is the intersection of Autism and ADHD, two neurotypes that frequently co-occur. While they’re often seen as opposites – one craving routine, the other drawn to novelty – the reality is far more complex. AuDHD is not…
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Accessibility
Accessibility means that people with disabilities can attend and fully participate in a given opportunity. When places and spaces are inaccessible, disabled people are unable to take advantage of the same opportunities as non-disabled people. For example, if an event takes place on the third floor of a building without an elevator, people with certain…
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Feedback Loop
A feedback loop is the part of a system in which some portion (or all) of the system’s output is used as input for future operations. What is a feedback loop? | Definition from TechTarget Since everything is interconnected, there are constant feedback loops and flows between elements of a system. We can observe, understand,…
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Neurome
What is a neurome? It’s the mind equivalent of a biome. It’s a space where quirky minds can thrive and flourish. Where they accepted in their diversity and their associated sensory needs. Neuronormativity, neuromes, campuses and finding a safe space Neuromes can cross time and space too (I think books might be neuromes too). For…
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Digital Gardening
A digital garden is an online space at the intersection of a notebook and a blog, where digital gardeners share seeds of thoughts to be cultivated in public. Contrary to a blog, where articles and essays have a publication date and start decaying as soon as they are published, a digital garden is evergreen: digital…
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Learning Exhaust
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Affinity Group
Through free association, people will find those of mutual interests in every sphere of life to form groups on the basis of their affinity. But whether these various groups meet and coordinate their activity in workshops, gardens, or other spaces of encounter and whether they are invested in maintaining energy systems, growing food forests, or…
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Affinity Space
Today, interest-driven interactions increasingly take place online as people join social media groups or ‘affinity spaces’ dedicated to specific interests. As defined by Gee (2004), ‘affinity spaces’ are loosely organized places (online or offline) built around shared passions, goals, and practices, rather than shared demographic characteristics. Newcomers and experts alike participate in the same space…
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Essential Neurodiversity Vocabulary: The Good, The Bad, The Different
Here’s some essential neurodiversity, disability, and equity vocabulary grouped by the good, the bad, and the different.
Other Glossaries
- Neuro-affirming Language & Glossaries | Autistic Realms
- Neuroaffirmative Neurodivergent Flashcards
- Autistic Glossary – AMASE
- Autism Glossary — Aurora Autistic Consulting
- The Words We Use | CommunicationFIRST
- Words that make me go hmmm… – Rewriting social care
- Parley Vouz Health & Social Care? (An A to Z of Carespeak) – Love, Belief and Balls
- Voices of Neurodiversity: An Inclusive Encyclopaedia
