In a World That Values Neuronormativity Kindness Is Punk

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In a World That Values Neuronormativity Kindness Is Punk
By Helen Edgar, Autistic Realms

The forces of neuronormativity feel overwhelming in this age of mass behaviorism and unvarnished eugenics.

…mass neurodivergent disablement and constant, widespread anxiety, panic, depression, and mental illness, combined with systemic discrimination of neurodivergent people, is a problem specific to the current historical era. Hegemonic neuronormative domination, in other words, is a key problem of our time.

Empire of Normality: Neurodiversity and Capitalism by Robert Chapman

Against that tide, we embrace our weird potentials. We neuroqueer the social world.

In line with a disability justice approach, one of the more positive recent developments is the theory and praxis of neuroqueering. Stemming from the work of Nick Walker and Remi Yergeau, neuroqueering focuses on embracing weird potentials within one’s neurocognitive space, and turning everyday comportment and behaviour into forms of resistance. This has provided a new tool for combatting neuronormativity from within the constraints imposed by history and current material conditions. By queering the social world, new possibilities are carved out for the future, helping us not just challenge aspects of the current order but to start collectively imagining what a different world could be like.

Empire of Normality: Neurodiversity and Capitalism by Robert Chapman

Everything that was normally supposed to be hidden was brought to the front.

Punk subculture – Wikipedia

We make room for all of us when we embrace our rules of punk.

Our rules of punk:

  1. Be yourself.
  2. Reframe, so that you perceive others such that they too can be themselves.
  3. Live your truth.
  4. Shred some gnar.

The First Rule of Punk: Be Yourself

Our Second Rule of Punk: Reframe

Book cover featuring a young girl of cover with her hair in pigtails beneath the words "The First Rule of Punk"
The First Rule of Punk: Always Remember to Be Yourself

When we reframe, we perceive others such that they too can be themselves.

Autistic ways of being are human neurological variants that can not be understood without the social model of disability.

A communal definition of Autistic ways of being

Reframe these states of being that have been labelled deficiencies or pathologies as human differences.

Normal Sucks: Author Jonathan Mooney on How Schools Fail Kids with Learning Differences

Love and acceptance are now punk ideologies.

David Byrne on 10/17/25 at the Met Philly, paraphrasing John Mitchell Cameron, Post by @carlquintanilla.bsky.social — Bluesky

David Byrne at #NoKings on his bike.(via @wutangforchildren.bsky.social)

Carl Quintanilla (@carlquintanilla.bsky.social) 2025-10-18T19:43:42.607Z

Midway through the first show of his three-night run at the Met, David Byrne recalled a quote by actor and playwright John Cameron Mitchell to the effect that love and kindness are today’s version of punk rock — “a form of resistance.”

At the Met, David Byrne is the protest punk hero these turbulent times need