I’m rewatching The Benevolence of Surrender, reflecting on Swamburger’s words:
Let’s make it personal.
Swamburger
You have to know the person, and that person has to believe in you.
Here are related quotes on autisticAutistic ways of being are human neurological variants that can not be understood without the social model of disability.If you are wondering whether you are Autistic, spend time amongst Autistic people, online and offline. If... More ways of developing trustAutists conceptualise the world in terms of trusted relationships with unique people.The beauty of collaboration at human scale The Autistic way of developing trust is based on experienced domain-specific competence.... More:
Autists conceptualise the world in terms of trustedAutists conceptualise the world in terms of trusted relationships with unique people.The beauty of collaboration at human scale The Autistic way of developing trust is based on experienced domain-specific competence.... More relationships with unique people…
Source: The beauty of collaboration at human scale
…many autistic children reported flourishing at home both educationally and personally. For these children and families, we identified three key ingredients essential to this flourishing, including: (i) the importance of connected, trustingAutists conceptualise the world in terms of trusted relationships with unique people.The beauty of collaboration at human scale The Autistic way of developing trust is based on experienced domain-specific competence.... More relationships (‘people’); (ii) the sensory and social safety of home (‘place’); and (iii) the flexibility to pace and structure learning to suit the individual child (‘time’).
The Autistic way of developing trust is based on experienced domain-specific competence. Autistic people:
(when young) assume everyone is telling the truthJustice, equality, fairness, mercy, longsuffering, Work, Passion, knowledge, and above all else, Truth. Those are my primary emotions.Very Grand Emotions: How Autistics and Neurotypicals Experience Emotions Differently » NeuroClastic https://youtu.be/uPRa6G2a48E... More;
(when older) can become very cynical;
can be fooled by people who appear to be logical but who have no scruples fabricating evidence;
are slow in learning the cultural significance of social cues, and can’t reliably read social cues in an environment of sensory overload.
A common Autistic way of making friends
To construct trusted relationships and friendships, Autistic people apply an explicit goal oriented approach:
- Search for people with shared interests, usually online
- Confirm a shared area of interest
- Start having fun by openly sharing knowledge, personal experiences, and related gaps of knowledge and questions
- Explore what can be achieved with joint capabilities and capacities
- Embark on significant joint projects (examples) to have more fun
Source: A communal definition of Autistic ways of being | Autistic Collaboration
Mutual trust. Connected, trusting relationships. That’s how I operate. I default to trust. That need and tendency is wired in deeply.
It might seem naïve, but then again it’s just really honest.
Solillaquists of Sound – The Benevolence of Surrender
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Thank you for your patient timing
I’m in debt to you forever
Grateful to have with you grown
Every city really feels like a home
Live this truth so I hope it shows
Love you all it’s important to know
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