Harshen Soyayya Guda Biyar

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Muna son wannan fun tweet a kan biyar neuroddivergent soyayya harsuna daga ko da yaushe inshaghted Myth.

Harshen soyayya na neurodivergent biyar: bayanai, wasa a layi daya, goyon baya, don Allah Crush My Soul Back Into My Body, kuma “Na sami wannan sanyi dutse/button/leaf/da dai sauransu kuma ina tunanin za ku so shi” (penguin pebbling) Myth

Hanyoyin motsin rai sune pixels na sadarwar dangantaka kuma suna da mahimmanci ga masaukin dangantaka. Wannan jerin yana da yawa game da ganewa da haɗuwa da wasu ƙananan ƙwaƙwalwar ƙwaƙwalwa a cikin dangantaka, saboda haka kalmar “harsunan ƙauna”.

Za mu fadada a kan kowane tare da zaɓaɓɓun sharuɗɗa, hotuna, da bidiyo.

Wani tunani shine lokacin da muke yin wani abu don nuna cewa muna son kulawa da haɗin kai. Binds na tunanin suna tsakiyar kowace irin dangantaka - romantic, zamantakewa da kuma sana'a. Mafi Mahimmancin Hikimomin Zumunci - Bids

Gottman yana nufin bids a matsayin “mahimmancin ɓangaren sadarwa na tunani.” Bids na iya zama ƙananan ko babba, maganganu ko marasa magana. Suna buƙatun don haɗi.

Bids ne sau da yawa da gangan dabara saboda mutane suna jin tsoron zama m da kuma sanya kansu a can. Abin tsoro ne ya ce, “Kai! Ina so in haɗa! Kula da ni!” don haka a maimakon haka, muna yin tambaya ko gaya labari ko bayar da hannunmu don haɗi. Muna fatan za mu karbi haɗin kai a dawo, amma idan ba haka ba, yana da ban tsoro fiye da rokon, “Haɗa tare da ni, don Allah!”

Kana so ka inganta dangantakarka? Fara Biyan Ƙarin Hankali ga Bids

Tebur na abubuwan da ke cikinFodumping Parallel Play, Body Doubling Support Swapping, Raba cokali Don Allah Crush My Soul Back Into My Boyd Penguin Pebbling: “Na sami wannan sanyi dutse/button/leaf/da sauransu kuma ina tunanin za ka so shi” Neuroddivergent Love Languages da kuma aiki Spiky Profile reframe Neurodiffergence Me ya sa muka sake fasalin Frame AIDREFrame Koyarwa Reframe Bincike Reframe Ayyukan Reframe Support Myth Bukatar Tallafi? Shafin zane-zane: Sphere of Humanity by Heike Blakley

Ina son su spooky kuma kai ne kawai na salon

Ya ce Leo ga Taurus

Kuma idan kuna so ku zauna tare da ni

Zan rufe mu da gandun daji

Za mu iya tafiya a fadin ƙasa mai sihiri

Yana da kore kuma yana da haske

Sanya jikinmu a cikin ganyayyaki da yashi

Mun sani kuma muna sani

“Strange Astrology” yana daya daga cikin waƙoƙin soyayya mai kyau wanda na taɓa rubutawa. Yana da bincike na gaskiya game da abin da ake nufi don ƙaunar wani wanda yake da bambanci fiye da ku. Yana da game da fatan cewa waɗannan halayen halaye da ilmantarwa suna ƙarfafa girma mai mahimmanci maimakon hargitsi, amma sanin cewa babu makawa zai zama bit na duka biyu.

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Kuma ban damu ba

Our baƙon astrology

Ina fatan za mu samu

Ka kawo mafi kyawun fita a cikin ni.

Taurari mai ban mamaki daga Slofrust

Bayanin zubar da bayanai

spins da Infocumps

Ban san wanda ya kirkiro kalmar “sha'awa ta musamman ba.” Watakila wasu masu bincike. Mutanen Autistic ba sa ƙaunar kalmar saboda kalmar “musamman” ta zama a hankali tare da sharuddan kamar “bukatun musamman,” wanda muka yi fushi.

Duk da haka, wani wuri a cikin layin “sha'awa ta musamman,” fiye da taƙaitaccen zuwa SPIN (“juya”), ya zama kalma ga halayen halayen halayen autistic don bunkasa wani abu tare da wani abu na musamman kuma sau da yawa m.

Wasu bukatu na musamman suna da ɗan gajeren rayuwa, wasu kuma suna ƙarshe rayuwar mutumin; amma, duk da haka sun dade suna ƙarshe, suna da tsanani, da jin dadi, da kuma muhimmin ɓangare na al'adun autistic.

Don haka haɗin kai ne na musamman ga al'adun autistic wanda mutanen autistic za su aika game da jin rauni da rashin motsawa saboda ba su da aiki SPIN a wannan lokacin.

Samun sha'awa ta musamman kamar samun murkushe ko zama sabo cikin soyayya. Yana cinyewa da ni'ima. Muna son raba bukatunmu na musamman da kuma misali na yau da kullum na tausayi na autistic yana ƙarfafa wasu su yi magana a cikin babban daki-daki- “infodump” - game da Spins.

An dauke shi alamar kulawa da abokantaka don ƙarfafa wani ya yi magana da kai game da SPIN- ko ba ka raba sha'awarsu ba- saboda babu abin da ke sa mutum na autistic ya fi farin ciki fiye da tattaunawa, koyo game da, ko raba game da, su SPIN.

Har ila yau, yana da karɓa a cikin al'adun autistic zuwa “infoudump” a kan wani batu duk lokacin da ya faru. Ga autists (wani insider gajeren hannu ga autistic mutane), raba ilimi da kuma bayanai ne ko da yaushe maraba.

7 Yanayin sanyi na Al'adun Autistic” NeuroClastic

Koyi game da Monotropism da spins

🐇... lokacin da ba zato ba tsammani wani White Rabbit tare da ruwan hoda idanu gudu kusa da...

Wasa mai layi daya, Jiki Doubling

Muna jin dadin wasan layi daya da ayyukan da ba sa buƙatar ci gaba da tattaunawa. Idan muka yi magana, yana da zurfi da sauri. Muna tattauna abin da ke ainihi, gwagwarmaya, tsoro, sha'awar, damuwa. Muna godiya ga kyakkyawan bayanai, kuma babu wani abu kamar oversharing. Muna musanya labarun SAME - raba lokacin da muka ji kamar haka a rayuwarmu, ba a matsayin gasar ba, amma don yin la'akari da yadda muke sauraron juna.

An rasa a cikin Fassara: Ka'idar Harshen Zamantakewa na NeuroDdivergence | ta Trauma Geek | Matsakaici

Ina so in ciyar da lokaci a cikin layi daya tare da ku; bari mu kasance tare.

neurosondronder — neuromondronder: Suna nan! Saboda ku...

Related to a layi daya wasa ne da AdHDer aiki na jiki sau biyu.

Amma a cikin duniya na ADHD, jiki biyu shi ne wanda ya zauna tare da mutum tare da ADHD yayin da yake magance ayyukan da zai iya zama da wuya a kammala shi kadai.

Mutane da yawa tare da ADHD sun sami sauƙi don ci gaba da mayar da hankali ga aikin gida, aikin gida, biyan kuɗi, da sauran ayyuka lokacin da wani ya kasance a kusa don kiyaye su kamfanin. Jiki sau biyu na iya zama a hankali. Yana iya karantawa, sauraron kiɗa a kan belun kunne, ko aiki a kan aikin da mutumin da ADHD ke aiki a kan. Hard aiki ne kawai mafi fun lokacin da wani yake kusa.

Samun kayan aiki ya fi sauƙi tare da Aboki

Amma me ya sa jiki ya yi aiki biyu? Akwai wasu 'yan bayani. Mafi sauki shi ne cewa jiki biyu yana aiki ne a matsayin anga ta jiki ga mutumin da ya damu wanda ya fi mayar da hankali ta wurin kasancewar wani mutum a sararin samaniya. Mutumin da ya damu yana jin alhakin da kuma jiki sau biyu. Wannan fahimta ta fassara as-ba zan iya ɓata wannan kyautar lokaci ba.

Jiki biyu: Kayan aiki na Musamman don Samun Abubuwa | ADDA - Ƙungiyar Kula da Rashin Kula da Ƙananan

Amma ba ta kasance a can don yin jinkiri ba. Domin sa'a daya, Ms. Bee, wani malami a cikin 30s, raye-streamed kanta rarraba tufafi a kan asusunta sadaukar da ADHD: brainsandspoons. Yayin da rafi ya ci gaba, masu kallo suka yi tsalle don yin wanki “tare da” ita.

“Kowa yana ƙarfafawa sosai,” in ji Ms. Bee, wadda ta koyi tana da ADHD a matsayin balagagge. “Ya sanya shi sosai jin kamar aikin rukuni, ba kawai ni da kaina a kyamara ba. Lallai ya sanya lokaci ya tafi da sauri.”

Ƙungiyar ADHD ta kira aikin “jiki sau biyu.”

'Jiki ninki biyu, 'wani kayan aiki na ADHD, yana bunkasa a kan layi | Pittsburgh Post-Gazette

Mene ne jiki ninka?

Idan ka yi tunanin cewa yaron autistic a makaranta yana yiwuwa a cire shi daga ramin hankalinsu sau da yawa a kowace rana, kowane lokaci yana haifar da rikice-rikicen da rashin jin daɗi mai zurfi, kuna kan hanyarku ta fahimtar dalilin da ya sa yanayin makaranta zai iya zama damuwa ga ɗaliban da yawa na autistic. Idan za ka iya kauce wa bayar da gudummawa ga wannan, za ka iya ganin cewa kana da lokaci mai sauƙi tare da ɗalibanku na autistic: gwada shiga cikin ramin hankalin su lokacin da za ku iya, maimakon tugging su daga ciki. Wasan layi daya shine kayan aiki mai karfi don wannan; fara inda yaron yake, nuna sha'awar abin da suke mayar da hankali a kai. Idan kana buƙatar cire su daga duk abin da suke mayar da hankali, yana da kyau a ba su lokaci kadan.

Craft, Gudu da Tsarin Zahiri

Taimako Swapping, Raba Spoons

Mutanen Neurdivergent, suna aiki tare, zasu iya cika raguwa a cikin bayanan martaba na juna. Tafi tawagar. Membobin Neurodeversitary ERG a Automattic suna taimaka wa juna a yayin aiki tare, tsarin nama, wanda zai iya zama damuwa sosai.

Taimakon goyon baya zai iya faruwa a lokacin wasa a layi daya, yana yin kyakkyawan lokacin canza harsunan soyayya.

Mutanen suna gaya mana abin da suke bukata, kuma muna samun mutumin da ke cikin al'umma wanda zai iya biyan wannan bukata.

Wani ra'ayi da muka dauka na kira “sharing spoons.”

Me muke aiki a yanzu? 🥄 #onefreeapp #sharingspoons #communitysolutions #mutualaid (feat. @lindsaymakesvideos)

Mene ne taimakon juna?

“Hadin kai, ba sadaka.”

Me ya sa cokali ya raba taimako?

Hade kai, fahimta da goyon baya

Yana ba da dama don taimakawa da kula da wasu a cikin sharuddan mu da kuma cikin iyawarmu

Taimako kai tsaye a cikin al'umma a cikin al'umma

Yana da sauƙi don yin tambaya, miƙa, karɓa, da raguwa tsakanin mutanen da suke “samun shi”!

Kulawa da Al'umma: Mafarki na Futures a Autistic Mutual Aid

Bugu da ƙari, al'ummomin autistic sun fallasa ra'ayoyin rashin adalci, haɗin kai, samun damar zumunci, kulawa da juna/al'umma, da taimakon juna. Care collectives, cokali hannun jari, da sauran kungiyoyin kula da al'umma ta hanyar da kuma ga nakasassu, mutane masu launin fata, LGBTQ 2IA + mutane (da kuma mutane a wannan haɗuwa) suna girma a lambar. Shin akwai makomar sararin samaniya don yin aiki a matsayin wurare na taimakon juna?

Komawa daga hangen nesa zuwa ga mai adalci yana buƙatar duban tsarin kulawa da mu kuma sake yin la'akari da yadda al'ummarmu ke aiki don tabbatar da babu wanda aka bari a baya.

Kulawa da Al'umma: Mafarki na Futures a Autistic Mutual Aid, Autscape: 2020 Gabatarwa

Koyi game da Taimakon Mutual

Koyi game da cudanyar

Don Allah Ka Murkushe My Soul Back Cikin Jikina

Wani shahararren misali na fifiko na autistic na kowa don shigar da matsin lamba mai zurfi shi ne Temple Grandin's Matsi Machine.

A shekarun 18, na gina na'ura mai matsi don taimakawa wajen kwantar da hankali da tashin hankali da tsoro. Yin amfani da na'ura na minti 15 zai rage damuwa na har zuwa minti 45-60 (Grandin da Scariano 1986). An ƙaddamar da sakamako mai dadi idan an yi amfani da na'ura sau biyu a rana.

A hankali, haƙuri na da ake riƙe da shi ta hanyar matsi inji ya girma. Sanin cewa zan iya fara matsa lamba, kuma dakatar da shi idan motsawa ya zama mai tsanani, ya taimake ni in rage yawan “tsarin juyayi.” Wani abu mai ban mamaki shine yanzu kwarewa mai ban sha'awa.

Yin amfani da na'ura ya sa ni in koyi jure wa wani mutum ya taɓa. Ta hanyar shekaru 25, na iya shakatawa a cikin na'ura ba tare da janye daga gare ta ba. Har ila yau, ya sanya ni jin dadi da rashin tausayi. Ba da daɗewa ba sai na lura da wani canji a cikin cat ɗin mu. Cat, wanda ya kasance yana gudu daga gare ni yanzu zai zauna tare da ni, saboda na koyi ya damu da shi tare da taɓawa mai laushi. Dole ne in yi wa kaina ta'aziyya kafin in iya ba da ta'aziyya ga cat.

Kamar yadda “tsarin mai juyayi” ya kwantar da hankali, ina buƙatar matsa lamba don samar da jin dadi. A hankali, zan iya rage tsarin mai kula da matsin lamba daga 80 zuwa 60 psi.

Calming Efects of Deep Touch Pressure a Marasa lafiya da Autistic Disorder, Daliban Kwalejin, da

Amma ina azabtar da ni saboda yayin da ba na so in yi wani wuri ko kuma ina da baƙi ƙara zuwa overload da overload, Ina matsananciyar wahala a lokaci guda don wani ya ba ni wani m, m, bear-hug. Don ɓoye ni, ku kone ni, kuma ku yi garkuwa da ni daga raƙuman ruwa masu motsi waɗanda ke tafiya daga sararin samaniya zuwa nawa.

A kan meltdowns | Misadvantes na Mama Abarba

Zan iya tunanin babu dalilai masu ma'ana da ya sa takalma ya kamata su kasance ga jarirai saboda suna da taimako sosai.

Suna kama da huci ba tare da saduwa ta jiki ba. Wannan abin ban mamaki ne!

sauti na gandun daji

Penguin Pebbling: “Na sami wannan sanyi dutse/button/leaf/da dai sauransu kuma ina tunanin za ku so shi”

Penguin PebBlingYana da hanyarmu ta cewa, “Na yi tunani game da ku a yau. Na tuna da wannan abu game da ku. Ga wani abu da nake so in raba tare da ku musamman. Aika dan kadan “tunanin ku” pebble. Yana taimakawa. @brainsandspoons

Wani Adelie Penguin yana ɗauke da dutse don ƙara zuwa gida a kan wani tsibiri a Antarctica, yana ƙarfafawa da harshen ƙauna na neuroddivergent penguin

Penguins ba pebble zuwa wasu penguins don nuna cewa suna kula. @brainsandspoons

Penguin Pebbling ya dawo zuwa spins, duka kiran mutane zuwa cikin naka da kuma karfafa wasu. spins wani tarin ne na r unconventional kyauta kyauta.

Ƙaunar PebbleSpebble mai kama da haruffa L, O, V, da E da aka shirya a cikin kalmar LOVE a kan bakin teku mai yashi, suna nuna harshen ƙauna na penguin pebbling.Image Credit: AJ Wool

Ƙara koyo Game da Penguin Pebbling

Harshen Ƙauna na Neuriddivergent da aikin haɗin kai

Ayyukan aiki yana sa aikin mafarki

Bayanin bayanai, wasa a layi daya, goyon baya swapping, da penguin pebbling sune harsuna na aiki tare da haɗin gwiwar kuma, musamman a cikin rarraba al'adun aiki da “sadarwa shine oxygen” al'adu. Idan kawai akwai rarraba da aiki-dace daidai da “Don Allah Crush My Soul Back Into My Body”.

Bayanan Spiky

Yi godiya ga baƙon astrology na bayanan martaba na spiky suna zuwa tare.

Abin da ke sa mu bambanta, ya sa duk bambanci a duniya.Randimals

Shiga cikin Randimals a cikin ilmantarwa game da bayanan martaba na spiky.

Hork

“Muna kiran kanmu Warriors da Weirdos.”

AURORA

Eagard

Muna kiran kanmu Warriors da Weirdos.

Kare teku

“Abin da ke sa mu bambanta, ya sa duk bambanci a duniya.”

Ellarilla

Omega hai foleet

Kuma ban damu ba

Our baƙon astrology

Ina fatan za mu samu

Ka kawo mafi kyawun fita a cikin ni.

Taurari mai ban mamaki daga Slofrust

Don haka, daya daga cikin abubuwan da za a tuna da wannan shi ne cewa lalacewar da ke cikin sharuddan dangantaka ko ma a cikin mafi faɗi tare da magoya baya a kan bakan da kuma tare da ADHD shi ne cewa lalacewarmu za ta iya zama ba a gani ba sau da yawa. Mun kasance cikin zamantakewa don gwadawa da yin magana da neurotypical, amma ba mu da kyau a gare shi. yawancin dangantaka - matsaloli ga masu goyon baya waɗanda suke neuroviders' sun fito ne daga rashin fahimtar niyya. Fahimtar mataki. Ko jin dadin rashin dacewa da damuwa. Sau da yawa saboda mun fito ne daga dukan rayuwa na zahiri ba a yarda da su ga wanda muke. ADHD da Autism Relationship Gidaje - Yadda za a Samu Bukatunku

Koyi Game da Bayanan Spiky

Koyi Game da Gidaje a cikin Hulɗar Neurdivergent

Reframe Neuropdivergence

Don fahimtar mutanen da ke cikin dangantaka ta kowane nau'i, dole ne mu sake fasalin. Mun sake fasalin rashin lafiya da bambanci tare da Four Pillars.

Tallafi Labari

Myth ta “Tambayi wani Autistic” YouTube jerin wani muhimmin ɓangare ne na tafiyarmu a nan Stimpunks. Muna farin cikin goyon bayan aikinsu.

Tallafi Labari

Bukatar Tallafi?

Stimpunks Foundation ya kalubalanci tsarin da ya dace wajen taimaka wa mutanen da suke neuriddivergent ko nakasa. Mun san abin da ake son zama tare da shinge da abin da ake nufi don kada ya dace da kuma dole mu tursasa al'ummarmu. Stimpunks ya san cewa neuruddivergent da marasa lafiya suna da bukatun mutum. Muna ba da wata hanya ta mutum don taimaka wa al'ummarmu ta bunkasa.

Ta hanyar Stimpunks Foundation, mu:

Bayar da taimakon kudi da juna;

Hayar da membobin al'umma a matsayin masu ba da shawara;

Samar da filin koyo wanda aka tsara don al'ummarmu; kuma

Taimaka wa kokarin bincike na budewa na al'ummarmu.

Daya cikin manya hudu na Amurka suna da nakasa. Duk da haka, al'ummarmu suna karɓar kashi 2% kawai na kuɗin tallafin Amurka, kuma kashi 19% kawai daga cikinmu suna aiki. Ba za mu iya bari hakan ya zama gaskiya ba. Dole ne mu kalubalanci al'ada kuma mu canza labarin da ke kusa da mutanen da ke da neuroddivergent ko nakasa.

Gidauniyar Stimpunks na neman yin hakan kawai. Ƙara koyo a stimpunks.org.

Ziyarci stimpunks.org

Shafin zane-zane: Sphere of Humanity by Heike Blakley

“Sphere of Humanity: Kyautar Traverse na Haɗin Mai Karfi” daga Heike Blakley

PunkFlowers by Heike Blakley

Published by Ryan Boren

#ActuallyAutistic retired technologist turned wannabe-sociologist. Equity literate education, respectfully connected parenting, passion-based learning, indie ed-tech, neurodiversity, social model of disability, design for real life, inclusion, open web, open source. he/they

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